I’m so glad you showed up… It’s the only way to get where you’re going

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I was so good at kicking ass and taking names (and by that, I mean taking care of everyone and everything) the way I’d always been taught, I never asked myself: What’s my Jam?

Not just what’s my dream or what would define a life worth living, but what is honoring myself in every relationship, every interaction and every decision I make on a daily basis?

You are more powerful than you know, but you’ve misdirected your power. What if what feels "right," is what you should be questioning?

Life is not a To-Do List. There’s a better experience out there for you. Your Jam is waiting.

Come with me…I’ll show you.


...a coach, author and speaker for high-achieving women who are up to something in the world. Using fifteen years as a psychotherapist, another twelve as a financial advisor and my own business and life experiences, I inspire you to claim the value-driven, meaningful and impactful personal and professional life that is only yours to live. I enjoy a good book, a dry glass of wine, a difficult hike, an occasional Netflix binge, and learning from my Humble Pie moments in life to grow myself and others to work together toward the greater good.

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You Saw It Coming

Let’s be brutally honest. Whatever gossip-worthy egregious behavior your coworker is displaying, whatever glaring Marco-Polo-your-bestie-worthy inconsideration your ex is performing, whatever outrage you’re reading on social about the idiots tit for tatting, wildly judging each other all while insisting that what their side is doing isn’t judgement, whatever bone crushingly unsupportive comment or stance your grandfather, or cousin or your



This picture speaks words seldom spoken. They are hard to verbalize, and when they find voice, they often land soundlessly like a butterfly on a bear. One might suppose these men are rude, inconsiderate, unconscious even. They aren’t, not in the slightest. And yet, here we are. Me squashed in between, careful not to take


On Losing Friendships

Several years ago, I drove down a road framed with multicolored autumn trees as sun splashed over the windshield of my PT Cruiser. I had rationalized buying this car new, but from day one it reeked of buyer’s remorse with its bright red confidence, and car payment I couldn’t at the time afford. On the radio an


Abby is a wealth of knowledge and has given me little nuggets of wisdom that have protected my heart and mind over the last 2 years AND she is a straight shooter that will not mince words… all delivered in love with the intent to make you better for yourself and the people you influence.

–Arwen Becker
Becker Retirement Group